Because the big ones leave it all in the gym. And therefore have nothing left for the physical exertion of real muscle worship and gut punching. Ditto CrossFit addicts.
As mentioned near the end, the meetups page has a new contact form — for guys in the United States who seriously want to make something happen, not fantasize about it. There are also new videos out, including Meat Rack (Strapped to a Punching Bag and Pounded). And I have a new page for those interested in cam shows. Thank you for your support.