Fantasy is overrated. I’d rather actually meet up with men who love — or want to try — muscle worship and gut punching than chat on social media about how hot it would theoretically be, someday, eventually, if we ever get around to it.


Men of action make it happen, and I respect and protect their privacy, whether they’re local — I live in Houston, Texas — or live somewhere else in the United States. NOTE: I am only available for travel within the United States. If you live in another country and can’t travel here, consider buying some of my videos or a cam show instead.

Here are the best ways to make a meetup happen:

– By participating in a video production, either as a model, running the camera, or (ideally) both. You may wear a mask and as much/little clothing as you’re comfortable with, but you’ll need to sign a model release form and let me scan or photograph your driver’s license for proof of age. Email me at homoabnormative AT gmail DOT com

– By underwriting a video production. Guys who want to meet, let alone film, muscle worship and gut-punching sessions are few and far between, so even though some of the videos are produced in Houston it takes a lot of travel to keep new content coming both to the blog and to the clip store. You can help offset those costs by renting my companionship servicesclick here to see if we’re compatible. This is an ideal option for guys who like the videos but prefer private, unfilmed, 100% confidential encounters. If you can’t afford to fly me out to wherever you are but you could hire me for a private meetup if I’m in your area, email me at homoabnormative AT gmail DOT com to see if I’ll be coming to your city. My current travel plans are posted here.

– By providing location or logistical support for a video production, most commonly in the form of letting me stay and film at your place when I travel. Note: this won’t be right for everybody. It does matter what your location has to offer and whether I’d be more or less comfortable than if I were at a hotel. But if you’re near a lot of interesting stuff and there are interesting filming opportunities at or near your place, this could work. Sometimes the “B-roll” footage in my videos comes from visits with an underwriter or a location host, as in this one:

By buying one or more of my paintings and having me deliver them to you. Depending on which one you choose, it may have been exhibited both at a well-regarded arts institution AND in a gut-punching video — but no one has to know that but us!


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I’ll post images and video of individual artworks on a new page on this site soon; in the meantime if you’ve already seen something you like in one of my videos, email me at homoabnormative AT gmail DOT com.